Ok maybe I hold Acacia more than I held Hannah, but Hannah wasn't one that wanted to be held... Acacia is. It has been said that I am spoiling her. I don't think you can spoil anyone with love. Acacia loves to be held, loved on and thrives on attention. Hannah was more easy going. Don't get me wrong she still crawls in my lap and is lovey. Acacia is just a bird of a different color. Anyone who has more than one child will tell you that they are all very different. That doesn't mean I am spoiling Acacia.